own it;

I saw this image on tumblr, and I have very mixed feelings about it. You do own everything that happened to you. Your feelings, no matter what they are, are yours and you should own them proudly.

HOWEVER. Please do not take it upon yourself to trash people on the internet, because that is pretty much what this post is encouraging.

If you want to write an autobiography or something and include people you don't like in your writing, please change their names. Please do not use your creativity to hurt someone who possibly might be awful, but also might really regret how they treated you.

Own your behavior. Use your judgment. Don't encourage hate or revenge. Just find your chill and realize that the things you say (no matter what someone else may have said to you) can really really hurt and weigh on someone.

I'm just saying, please think before you write.

Don't trash someone who never stopped loving you.